often times, people will be hurt be a situation, by what somebody said or by what somebody didn't say, because they expected something else to take place. they expected the situation to be different. they expected the person to say something else or something lasting and meaning. and all this is because each one of us want to be understood. we want to be loved. we want SOMEONE to understand what it is we really are.

it is hard to get past this, this assumptive expectation. so it causes us to be sadder and more hurt than we really should be.

but this is not to say we shouldn't expect great things. that we shouldn't tell somebody how we truly feel. we need more honesty, we need more love. we need less lies and fear.

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